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Newsletter #15. Stop Being Led, Start Choosing Consciously

Dec 07, 2025
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✨ A note from Guido

Broken relationships between people are never entirely broken. Never.

I've observed something fascinating over the years: when two people have a troubled relationship, it's rarely about them. It's about conflicting beliefs.

One person holds a certain belief, the other person holds a different belief, and these beliefs clash. The people don't clash—their beliefs do.
Here's the powerful part: change the belief, and the clash disappears.

Do you remember learning that your beliefs determine your emotions? When your belief changes, your emotion changes too. It's that straightforward, yet we often forget this simple truth when we're caught in the heat of conflict.

I experienced this recently with a client. She came to me not because of a family dispute, but because she was genuinely interested in personal development through conscious creation. We worked together on her journey of growth and self-discovery. A beautiful side effect? Her family relationships healed naturally.

She didn't come to fix the relationships. She came to develop herself. But as she grew as a conscious creator, as her beliefs evolved, the family dynamics transformed.

Too many people today remain stuck holding onto the pain of troubled relationships. They grip that pain tightly, replaying old wounds, reinforcing old narratives. It's truly unfortunate because there's another way.
Instead of focusing on the broken relationship, focus on your own development. Instead of trying to change the other person, work on growing as a conscious creator. When you shift your beliefs and evolve your understanding, the relationship often shifts naturally—sometimes dramatically.

This theme of conscious choice runs through everything we're sharing this week. In this week's article, I explore how we often let circumstances control our decisions instead of making deliberate choices.

In our new YouTube videos, we dive deeper into what it means to choose consciously as a creator—plus tackle that familiar trap of always being busy.
The relationships you want, the life you desire—they often arrive as a natural consequence of becoming who you're meant to be.

Read the full article and watch the videos. The links you will find below. 

Have a great week! 
Guido


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📹 Two new videos on YouTube about conscious creation! 

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Why You React Instead of Choose (And How to Change It)

 

Why You're Always Busy (And What You're Really Avoiding)

 


đź“– New blog:   The Power of Conscious Choice: Creating Your Life from Intention, Not Circumstance

Stop letting circumstances control your choices. Learn conscious creation: make deliberate decisions based on your authentic desires, not reactions to situations. Transform how you create your life.

👉 You can read the full blog article here. 


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This course is different. It's not about managing fear—it's about transforming your relationship with it completely.

 

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🌀 Quote of the Week

"In conscious creation, we see life as a long journey of development—becoming more and more the person you truly are." 

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